One of the things that can keep you in a negative cycle is comparison. Comparison doesn’t have to control you, but what would it take for you to finally stop the cycle? How can you turn your comparison into inspiration?
You’ve probably heard it all before. “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know”. If you’ve really been in on the game you’ve probably also heard, “it’s not what you know, but who knows you”. There are networking tips that stand the test of time and it can be difficult to jump in and get your feet wet when you don’t know what you’re doing… yet.
If there is one thing I can be 100% sure of it’s that good things are on the way to me. Time and time again I have seen how even in the most challenging and strange circumstances things have always worked out in my favor.
March was easily the busiest time I’ve been in for a while. Not only did I have TWO back to back work trips, I also had TWO back to back dance performances!
There’s something to be said for actually having the time and space to figure out who it is you want to be, where you want to go, and ultimately what it is you truly want for yourself. The highs and lows are endless and there are so many lessons to be learned along the way. Along with the pleasure of stepping into your true form and becoming the highest version of yourself, comes a very unique pain that is a unique part of the process…
I can think of a lot of things that I have personally felt when it comes to my own healing journey and mental health. I think the one connecting thread in some of my toughest experiences has been fear. It’s important to celebrate the wins and to marvel at all of the progress that has been made. It’s just as important to be able to look back on the past on learn from it.
If you’ve been following and reading these blog posts, you’ll know that I’ve been trying to develop more trust with myself and my decisions. A part of that is practicing healthy habits and being intentional about the things I do. One of those things I wanted to focus on was creating more experiences for myself and getting out more.
So I just turned 26 and I am obviously accepting the fact that my 30’s are looming ahead (on that note, please remember to live in the present so you don’t go down rabbit holes). I am also accepting the fact that it’s okay to live life out loud and present the highest version of myself.
So after 6 months I wrapped up my last therapy session and I am so proud of how far I’ve come. I didn’t think that therapy was something that could really be accessible to me, but I am happy that I took out the time to prioritize me.
Success is such an interesting topic to discuss. Success can mean so many different things to each of us, but we are all striving for it in one way or another. Whether it’s success in work, life, relationship, our business ventures, etc. we still would like to be considered successful… So what does success actually mean? What does it even look like and why do we feel so much pressure to attain it?